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Poll: Are Schools Doing Enough to Stop Hazing, Bullying?

Three plaintiffs were added to a lawsuit against Maine West High School that alleges coaches condoned hazing.

 

A lawsuit against Maine West High School alleges that students were hazed and bullied, sometimes at the behest of coaches of some athletic teams.

A police investigation into a hazing incident this year led to charges against six students. During a “campus run” the boy’s teammates grabbed him, according to the lawsuit, tore off his underwear, held him down so he could not resist, grabbed his testicles and sodomized him with their fingers and other foreign objects.

Des Plaines police told the Chicago Sun-Times that they sought felony charges in the case, but Cook County prosecutors disagreed. Prosecutors said there was not enough evidence for the more serious charges and settled on misdemeanors, the Sun-Times reported.

Since that initial accusation, three other families have joined the lawsuit. Some of the allegations date back to 2008. Documents associated with the case, including the lawsuit, are attached to this post.

Although Maine West has been in headlines recently, hazing and bullying is nothing new at high schools. Township High School District 211 canceled a basketball game this week because of a hazing investigation involving the Hoffman Estates boys varsity basketball team.

"Frequent misconceptions about hazing include the idea that hazing is nothing more than harmless pranks and that it is a practice largely isolated to college fraternities," the website StopHazing.org states.

The website also gives tips on how to change a hazing culture and barriers to changing that culture.

  • Are Schools Doing Enough to Stop Hazing, Bullying?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • Yes. The ultimate responsibility falls on the students and their parents, not the schools.
        8 (16%)
    • No. Schools are too often a breeding ground for this type of behavior.
        40 (83%)
    Total votes: 48
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
Related Topics: Bullying, Hazing, Hazing Lawsuit, Lawsuits, Maine West, and maine west hazing

Carl Lambrecht

7:50 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Physical Education is important. Yet sports are not. Too many students have life time injures from Athletic activity. Yet physical education gives strength to the student with a focus on protecting the student from life time injury. Schools spent 10s of millions of dollars on Sports wastefully. Highland Park/Deerfield District 113 High School took a survey of the community. The community gave High importance to Education and Physical Education. Sports were not considered necessary for a student’s development. It is considered by the community as nice to have. Now you are proving this with behavior of some coaches

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RonnieTheLimoDriver

8:25 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Personally I think the problem is on the use of the terms "hazing" and "bullying." Hazing and bullying have the connotation to many of bad but essentially harmless acts as is discussed in the article. This sort of stuff is neither. These boys were not "hazed"; they were sexually assaulted / gang raped. Its disgusting, and those involved should be punished to the fullest extent of the law. Lets use the right (albeit more frightening) terms for these horrible acts and perhaps we will see actual reduction in the number of instances.

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GuitarMan

1:15 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

To your point.
To the question is enough being done? No. Our culture & institutions dances around bad behavior behind the fear of being sued. People and schools don't get sued for encouraging mutual respect toward others. Our community is at fault, just as much as schools are. We shrink from telling others they are disrespectful to others, and create a standard, bullying, that is unclear at best, and a diversion from the truth; a lack of basic mutual respect for others, from others.

Cindy Marie

9:02 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

My son had complained to his gym teacher that his back was hurting him from the running they were doing in gym at district 15 junior highschool. The gym teacher told him to run anyways and when my son came home he could barely move so I took him to the Illinois bone and joint and after testing it was found he had a slight back fracture due to the pounding of the running and him still trying to grow. My son was in a back brace for 6 weeks and had to go for physical therapy. When I confronted the gym teacher he naturally denied all of what happened but I complained as high up as I could.

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victoria smith

9:03 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I agree with Ronnie. This was not hazing, it was sexual assault. These students who particpated in this should be punished to the max. What are the coaches doing about this? Not much of anything, which makes me believe that they are just as sick minded as the students who performed these acts! I know that when you are on a sports team, the team all sticks together, but I can't believe that if this was done out in the open on a run, that other teamates wouldn't have tried to put a stop to this. So much for protecting one of their own! Feel sorry for the parents of these students.

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Cindy Marie

9:10 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I think these gym teacher don't listen to what a student is saying and they push push and push to hard! Sometimes it is not healthy and good for a student. Kids are still growing and as far as jogging goes I believe its not healthy to run......me being a jogger and what it has done to me......so maybe these gym teachers need a refreshers course on how to listen to what a student is saying before you push them!! Also the case above should be sexual assault and it should not be a misdeamnor!!!

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LaVerne

10:39 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Did he tell you before he told Gym teacher?

Carl Lambrecht

10:01 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I know people from some years ago. That have had back injures from sports. In fact one had 3 back operation for sports in his youth. As schools let’s focus on physical education. Sports do not belong in secondary education. It’s not healthy as well as too expensive. In Highland Park High School additional parking was built with an empty parking area across the street. Public school should focus on education. Tax dollars are wasted in public education not only in sports.
Carl Lambrecht 847 432 8255, lambrecht@laurelindustries.com

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Sarah

10:16 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Not only does it cause injuries but the students at kept late when a tournamant is going on so they don't get home until 8-9 at night. They are so exhausted and can't focus on homework because they are too tired.

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J.Lyn

10:31 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Let's see...the coaches employed by the school are accused of condoning the behavior. Do we really need to look further than the school to find fault? They are the party who placed the youngsters in the hands of the coaches. I hope the 3 plaintiffs win this case and it is serves as a warning to all educational institutions that this behavior will not be tolerated. The coaches need to lose their teaching credentials and be placed in a national database so that no other school hires them. Infact...they should all have to pay a personal financial penalty and do community service for no less than one year wearing a sign that states " I abuse children".

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GuitarMan

1:19 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I think its more than punishing some coaches.
To the question is enough being done? No. Our culture & institutions dances around bad behavior behind the fear of being sued. People and schools don't get sued for encouraging mutual respect toward others. Our community is at fault, just as much as schools are. We shrink from telling others they are disrespectful to others, and create a standard, bullying, that is unclear at best, and a diversion from the truth; a lack of basic mutual respect for others, from others.

Jjb

10:38 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I'm all for punishing the people involved in this but I sure hope that all information is 100% correct in this because a lot of people's lives ae at stake for being ruined. The thought of making a large amount off this unfortunate and terrible incident can bring a lot of money hungry people out of the closets as well to lie or embellish stories, which to me is just as wrong as the the initial claims . To anyone who is complaining about the amount of time your children have to practice for their sport they choose to participate in , it's just that its a choice your child does not have to be involved in sports all kids know that going into any kind if sport that just like there classes in school they have to put hard work into what they r doing to do well . So if u don't want them to be involved in a sport then don't let them join there are plenty other activities at the high schools that they can join .

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GuitarMan

1:12 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

To the question is enough being done? No. Our culture & institutions dances around bad behavior behind the fear of being sued. People and schools don't get sued for encouraging mutual respect toward others. Our community is at fault, just as much as schools are. We shrink from telling others they are disrespectful to others, and create a standard, bullying, that is unclear at best, and a diversion from the truth; a lack of basic mutual respect for others, from others.

Bob G

10:47 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Let us not forget that a parent has a role in his child's schooling too. Keeping open communication lines with them is invaluable. These kinds of things should not be allowed to happen. Peer pressure sucks but maybe one of the kids could have warned the parents early on and these fools could have been fired. Remember it was other kids that are actually doing the hazing. They should have known better too.Talk to your kids. Surely someone knew about this long before,years before the lawsuit lottery started. The kids who took part should be getting sued right along with the scumbags who allowed it to continue.

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Kate

11:10 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

This generation of kids are a bunch of whiners and so are their parents.

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RonnieTheLimoDriver

11:22 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

No argument there, but come on... Having a bunch of other people grab your genitals and stick objects in your rectum against your will is certainly grounds for complaining.

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Mandy

11:59 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

It's called RAPE. Not whining

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Stevie Janowski

7:17 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

I agree, let the boys play, more fights and all, but I also agree with ronnie this was extreme. In other news Ronnie come pick me up, its howard

Craig Apelbaum

11:28 am on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Schools don`t do enough to stop hazing or bullying. Whether it`s youth bullying youth .Or youth bullying adults (staff).

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Mr. Rats

12:09 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Yet another reason to dismantle the industrial educational complex in this country run by union thugs and left-wing socialists. A system burdened with top-heavy administration, out-of-control salaries and pensions, social re-engineering agenda and systematic sexual assault and battery to top it off. All of this to produce the dumbest generation of Americans ever and the lowest performing of the industrialized world and some third world nations. Then these so-called "teachers" have the audacity and the temerity, no less than the brazen cojones, to ask for more money and less work time at the expense of children. I personally think we need to go back to the basics, to the same basics that created previous generations that went to space and the moon in washing machines, won WWII and the Cold War and gave us the Declaration of Independence, Constitution and Gettysburg Address. I don't fault teachers, I fault the complex and it's administration for brainwashing teachers and in turn their students. As I've said in the past we have enough nuclear weapons (thanks to previous generations) to keep the barbarian horde at bay while we scrap the complex and start over. By the way, I'm a brown-skinned first generation American who grew up in a Spanish speaking dirt poor household in Chicago. I'm a republican but voted for Obama twice, second time it took me five minutes starring at the ballot to do it. I mention this cause the first thing the libs say is, "racist white red neck" to counter

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GuitarMan

1:11 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

@ Mr Rats. You sound like an unhappy person.

To the question is enough being done? No. Our culture & institutions dances around bad behavior behind the fear of being sued. People and schools don't get sued for encouraging mutual respect toward others. Our community is at fault, just as much as schools are. We shrink from telling others they are disrespectful to others, and create a standard, bullying, that is unclear at best, and a diversion from the truth; a lack of basic mutual respect for others, from others.

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Nightcrawler

3:36 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Went to space and the moon in washing machines?

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Just Sayin

5:44 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Are you suggesting we go back to one room school houses? To teachers that teach 12 grade levels at the same time? To the use of personal chalk boards? To coal burning cast iron pot bellies? To hickory switches when little shoe-less Jim-Bob pulls Susie's pig tails? To teaching that Native Americans are blood thirsty barbarians?
Now that is going back to basics! I'm a lib and I'd call ya a racist brown neck pseudo republican with a huge chip on his shoulder.

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Mr. Rats

6:17 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Just Sayin, that's exactly what I'm advocating. There's no way we could do any worse than now and it would be a whole lot cheaper.

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Nightcrawler

8:36 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Maybe we could get the man who invented that washing machine that went to the moon to be the teacher. Should we encourage him to use corporal punishment?

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Mr. Rats

8:59 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Corporal punishment would be better than systematic rape and other sexual assaults (hazing).

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Anthony P.

10:15 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Amen brother! You don't sound unhappy to me. Sometimes the truth hurts. I've met a lot of people around who speak the same opinion and keep it from these whiny leftist thugs. Funny reading the comments from these idiots that don't know what sarcasm is.

I'm not advocating one room school houses, but the education I had was from those elders who were most likely came from those generations. Wise, tough people.

It's funny that you hear all these opinions expressed blindly from keyboards. Get out people and speak up in person. I attend my village meetings and definitely express mine, the old fashioned way. In person has way more of an impact than whining in a forum. It gets you nowhere.

Mary Beth

12:48 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Predatory sexual assault is a crime; twisted deviant behavior whether done by students, teachers or promoted/encouraged by any of the above. There have been numerous reports of abuse from those in power, whether it be coaches, teachers, scout leaders, ministers, priests, 'trusted' adults, neighbors. To link this with 'union thugs and left wing socialists' is beyond absurd. Children need protection from those who wish to harm them, whether at school or in the community. The school system's primary purpose beyond education is to keep the child safe. Some schools do a better job than others in dealing with bullying, hazing and promoting respect and tolerance. While teachers also need to be protected from false allegations made by disgruntled students; every allegation must be investigated. The atmosphere of the school must be focused on respect for all.

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GuitarMan

1:08 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

To the question is enough being done? No. Our culture & institutions dances around bad behavior behind the fear of being sued. People and schools don't get sued for encouraging mutual respect toward others. Our community is at fault, just as much as schools are. We shrink from telling others they are disrespectful to others, and create a standard, bullying, that is unclear at best, and a diversion from the truth; a lack of basic mutual respect for others, from others.

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Bree Olson

1:54 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Kids are so weak today. If someone bullies you take it like a man and fight them or just ignore them. Society in general is too weak.

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Mandy

6:14 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

It is RAPE. Rape should not be delt with by "manning up" or ignoring it. perhaps it should be swept under the rug? Maybe somehow you can twist it to blame the victim. Sick

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Anthony P.

10:21 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Yes it is rape and those involved should be brought to justice. All aside Bree has a point and her response may be geared to the POLL not the ARTICLE. Did that ever occur to you Mandy? Probably not. I'm sure NO ONE ON HERE with any sense in mind would ever think that what happened to these kids was notrape.

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Shawn

11:04 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Yeah, those weak kids having those sissy emotions and not just bottling it up so it can manifest later in life. Just man up, that'll do it. Fighting is not the answer, and you're an idiot for saying stupid things like "Society in general is too weak".

You're the weak one. It is a sign of weakness to be too afraid of one's own emotions, or to ridicule others for having emotions. Sad...

cynthia

3:05 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

No our schools do not allow parents to contact other parents whose children are doing the bulling.. These school administrators who are bullies themselves think thye know how to handle the situation better than parents do...They want to turn our children into passive nitwits who cannot think for themselves or handle a problem themselves. Its called mind control..I once told a child who gave my son the finger that I wanted to speak to his Mother..The school went wild that I had spoken to a child..He was 10 years old..not 2. if your old enough to give the finger then your old enough to face the music. The school wants parents to think that the school is the end all. That we cannot live without these overpaid, bottom 20% of the college graduating class scores mental lightweights. I totlly blame the schools for the problems they have created. They are the worst influence on society and we really need to cut their wings and we as parents need to unite and pledge to handle matters between us.

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GuitarMan

7:59 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

@ Cynthia.

Minor correction in your comment above. Schools cannot prevent communication between parents. The school may not provide the name of a student to an inquiring parent, but that is a matter of confidentiality about a student, not a parent.
The remainder of your comment is closer to banter and not really specific enough to warrant much from a reader. Nice try at banter though.

cynthia

3:09 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

When we don't allow our children to face issues themselves we take away their self respect and confidence. We are here to guide them and teach them not to do the talking for them..I had confidence when I was young so there would have been no way that a preditor would have tlaked me into anything. But my parents encouraged me to solve my own problems..They didn't do it for me. And the school taught..they did not parent..

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upton

3:12 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Industrial educational complex? Somebody is wearing their aluminum foil hat again.

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Mr. Rats

6:18 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Actually I was wearing my Bears cap today. Tomorrow I'll wear the tin foil hat.

Millie

4:37 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Failed to mention if this was actually initiation to become a member of the group. Did students want to be part of group then changed minds?

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David

4:55 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Zero tolerance! Expel the bullies and let these darling children be home schooled by their pathetic parents. Simple.

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Jim Corcoran

5:22 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

A high school in Appleton, Wisconsin tried an experiment under the enlightened guidance of their principal, LuAnn Coenen. She wanted to see if she could positively affect the fighting, weapons-carrying and general lack of focus and discipline in the school by changing the food the kids ate.

Vending machines were replaced with water coolers; hamburgers and French fries were taken off the menu and replaced with fresh vegetables and fruit, whole grain breads and a salad bar. With the departure of junk food, she also saw the departure of vandalism, litter and the need for police patrolling her hallways. The students were calm, socially engaged and focused on their schoolwork. Problems were minimal. And all Ms. Coenen did was change the menu!

Please watch "Forks Over Knives" for FREE to learn more about the implications of a meat-based diet vs a plant-based diet. Go to http://www.hulu.com/watch/279734 and do yourself and your family a favor!

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Dr. Antonia Demas conducted a pilot program for youthful offenders at Bay Point School, a controlled residence for select male juvenile delinquents. Incorporating the principles of her curriculum, Demas' results were astounding: Grade point averages increased, athletic performance and strength improved, aggressive behavior declined, acne cleared, excess weight came down, and every single one of the participants reported general improvements in well-being. http://foodstudies.org/

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cynthia

6:10 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

That same menu will change the behavior of the teachers too..My goodness what bad nutrition they have and thye eat in the class rooms like slobs too..They don't wash their hands before and after eating..have the kids sitting on the floor and eating..They need the education on how to behave first. By the way did you know that 50% of children in juvenile detention are children with specail needs who were never diagnosed by the school or witheld services from the school? Oh yes, our schools are the worst for society..They are getting paid 10 times more than any other country per child and 50% per cent more than the leading countries in comphensation and they can't even ensure children eat right while in school.

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Terri

12:31 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Wait...so it's the teacher's fault? Most of your post is moronic, so let me address your facts.
1.) In Finland, teaching is the most respected of occupations. The starting pay for their teachers is 15% higher than the US and 33% towards end-of-career.
2.) US teacher starting salary is 13% lower that all other countries combined (according to the OECD) and 27% lower at end-of-career.
3.) The reason students in need of IEP aren't "diagnosed" by the school is that schools cannot "diagnose". They recommend that parents seek a diagnosis. If the district insists on a "diagnosis", they become financially responsible for the result. Districts avoid it for cost. Teachers beg for it daily.
3.) When did it become the school's responsibility to feed children?

Stevie Janowski

7:10 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Its school sure this type of stuff is going to go on. I always think there should be more fights in school then there are today. Were getting to soft

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LaVerne

7:52 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Stevie really more fights .Someone could get hurt

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Stevie Janowski

9:05 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

Thats the whole point of a fight lucas... back in grade school, i got in many fights it made me a better person, i learned a lot from it. won more than i lost, but thats besides the point. I once fought a guy named ashley shaffer, he was talking bad about my lady maria, that is something i just dont stand for. I won the fight (broke his nose) and it made me a tougher, and more respected person. Fights in schools are gonna happen no matter what and i think schools today should lower the punishment for fighting.

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Anthony P.

10:23 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Tough love. More is needed, it generates respect. That aside, rape is not the answer. They should be tried for that.

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Brian

10:49 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

I doubt Stevie won any fights. Didn't Kenny have a problem with Ashley Shaffer? How can we take you seriously?

D man

10:24 pm on Sunday, December 2, 2012

What about the parents? Every blames the teachers, but when the kids see their parents bullying teachers/other adults they think it all good.

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My Self

12:59 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Since today my sister went to a wake for a child who killed himself over bullying at school, I would say no. The school was informed and the parents asked the school to help. They did nothing.

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LaVerne

7:44 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

What did the parents do to help there child? Did they get them help?

Procrustes' Foil

4:26 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

People in the United States are becoming increasingly irresponsible, uncivilized, ungovernable and barbaric - at ALL social levels and classes, rich and poor alike. It is a common practice to blame others for bad behavior. It may take a village to raise a child, but it also takes a village to ruin one.

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Abi Kinsella

6:29 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

I had to scroll all the way to the bottom to finally find a comment I agree with, Procrustes Foil -- and btw, you hit the nail on the head. Just reading all the prior comments makes me cringe. People are far too willing to pass the blame down the line -- especially parents. Let's blame the coaches, no, let's blame the school administrators, no wait -- let's blame their fellow students and peer pressure. Why aren't parents teaching their kids that actions have consequences, and that they(the kids) are solely accountable for their own actions? It's an important lesson, but this generation more so than others in the past, has unfortunately been saddled with parents who are no longer teaching them how to be respectful, how to have integrity and honor, and most importantly -- how to be honest and responsible. If anything good should come from this, this tragedy should be embraced by the community as a teachable moment. It's high time parents teach their kids to be discerning and respectful, and that includes teaching them the importance of treating others the way they'd like to be treated.

Molly

6:48 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Organized school sports are not the evil in our world, stop blaming sports for every bad thing that happens within a school. The crime that occurred at Maine West was done by a group of thugs and should be punished as such. If school employees knew of this crime and did nothing they also should be jailed. This incident is different than the widespread problem of children/adults who believe they can act in any way they want. My parents did not have a lot of money but were highly thought of because they treated others respectively, they listened and discussed opposing viewpoints without rancor. They held various town govt. jobs, elected political positions and many volunteer hats. My siblings and I were involved in sports, music and other various school and civic activities. We weren't angels and there were a few scrapes with the police & stupid teenage behavior but there was a line we didn't cross. That line seems to have disappeared.

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LaVerne

7:49 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

thugs? crime/ look up definition of hazing. as was said earlier perhaps they wanted to be part of the group . Knew there was to be initiation to become member and after changed minds.

Molly

8:41 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Lucas, the definition of hazing includes the words strenuous, dangerous activity that recruits are forced to do. It does not specify that criminal behavior, as in sexual harassment or abuse, is a necessary component. My teen has participated in "hazing" to join a sports team...it involved embarrassing acts (singing in the cafeteria), polishing the bleachers and other stupid things. Again, people seem to have lost the ability to differentiate between harmful, cruel behavior (as in the criminal behavior at MW) and moronic behavior. At this point we the public do not know the details of the Maine West incident. I hope the victims receive counseling and as much help as possible. The parents took a courageous step in going public. As parents we need to teach our kids that evil things exist in this world and they should not harm others either personally or by witnessing it AND that they do not have to be a victim themselves (in order to join a peer group, team, etc).

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LaVerne

9:00 am on Monday, December 3, 2012

Molly the definition also includes word initiation. Nothing says what those involved knew before this happened. Not defending anyone but both sides should be heard from

Mary Beth

12:48 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Lots of opinions as to who is at fault. The single concept of Respect seems to be the common denominator, or rather the lack of it-in our society as a whole which then trickles down into every aspect of daily life. As parents/adults we may teach respect at home, but also need to role model that behavior in daily actions-in interactions with family, neighbors, co-workers, drivers, clerks, others in the community. Flying off the handle, shouting obscenities, name-calling to others who irritate us demonstrates that it is OK to disrespect those who make us angry. The prevalence of violence in entertainment blurs the line between reality & fantasy. While teaching & demonstrating respect at home, we ultimately must demand not only respect at school, but safety with investigation into each incident. Every child should be taught to defend himself, not provoke; however an assault of 6:1 is gang rape-no amount of 'manning up' would have helped. No kid should ever have to deal with that. Some schools have better preventative programs, such as Iroquois Comm School (elementary). MW should look into it. Jim Corcoran cites interesting studies, however, changing the menu does not impact what kids bring to school or buy on the way. I do believe nutrition impacts behavior, however, as the mom of 4 teens, getting them to eat what you serve is an entirely different story. Kids are very resourceful. Complex issues, but ultimately the school is responsible for keeping kids safe.

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richard fitswell

1:18 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

if there is any question to who is at fault. It is any one who knew about this, or participated and did not report it to the police. Very Simple.

Donny

12:49 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Gang rape and sodomizing are not hazing, not even close.

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Joemama

1:15 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

I sorry your going to stick something into my ass or I can't play in your sport? Just writing that makes me cringe.

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Molly

3:33 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Lucas...I'm the biggest shade of grey kind of person there is. Drives my husband crazy. You are correct in that we don't know what the "recruits" expected or was told would happen. We also don't know if this was a pre-planned act. I can't imagine any teen would willingly submit themselves to such behavior or acts. I also can't imagine that teens would plan to treat someone in such a way. Whether we ever hear both sides or not, everyone should understand that things like this are wrong. Wrong to do, wrong to witness and that it's ok NOT to go along with a group when it's wrong. I was once with a group of moms who were gossiping about some "slutty" girls who had made out with some boys at a party. When I brought up the fact that making out takes two to tango, and why weren't the boys considered to be slutty, I was stared at like I had two heads. I bring this up only because we (society/media) are quick to judge and assume. Yes, we should learn as much as we can before we pass judgement.

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Gary

5:19 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Perspective: What if they had done this to a girl? Would the charges have been reduced to "misdemeanor"?

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Bree Olson

6:54 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Schools are doing too much. Let the kids fight it out. Thats how problems are solved and lessons are learned.

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Mary Beth

10:30 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

Good Lord, Bree Olson! I can only hope that you speak from complete inexperience as your comment portrays ignorance, callousness and condoning criminal actions. "Fight it out"? Just how do you expect anyone to fight off a group of 6? Just what lessons were learned after this boy was sodomized. Sick and perverse ideology. I pity any child coming to you for advice, comfort or defense.

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Quagmire

6:56 am on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

What? What if something like that happened to you? Would you suggest to the states attorney that you and your rapist are going to work it out???

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Puddinghead

12:32 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Wasn't there a young girl from Highland Park who left a concert, couldn't get back in and "befriended" a group of boys/men who ended up gang raping her? Bree do you think she learned her lesson? You think she should have or could have fought these men off. Speaking from experience, it's harder than you think when you are outweighed and or outnumbered. A child against six assailants or 1 child against 1 adult, odds aren't good. The more I read these posts the angrier I get. At what point do we become people that protect children instead of people our children need protection from.

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Shawn

5:41 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Bree Olsen is a troll. Someone who has too much time on his hands and probably has many issues of his own he doesn't want to deal with. Don't pay him any mind. The anonymity of the internet makes many a jerkface brave.

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GuitarMan

7:52 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

@ Bree Olson.

Do you drink a lot of booze? Drunks always lean toward fighting it out.

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Stevie Janowski

11:07 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Puddinghead, the girl from highland park was also drunk at a dubstep or button pushing concert in down town chicago and was left by her friends. She ran into the wrong group of gansters. Has nothing to do with a school, like bre and this article is talking about. That event was bad, but 100% unrelated.

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Puddinghead

4:14 pm on Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Stevie J - my point was more about the crime of gang rape and a persons ability to fight off an attack like this and not about any specific similarity between the two cases. The only similarity is the crime itself.

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Stevie Janowski

4:48 pm on Wednesday, December 5, 2012

It was a poor and duly noted point.

Bree Olson

11:33 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012

@ Mary Beth I personally feel very bad for your kids, if you do have any. I actually am speaking from experience as I fought my way through life to the top and I look down over every one because of it. You fight off six kids by training harder, working harder, out smarting, and surrounding your self with friends who have your back at all times. The lessons learned were be tougher, train harder, and keep your friends close but your enemies closer. I pity your soft, weak, advice that only losers should listen to and use. Let the kids fight it out like the good ole days. Your a weak human being, that thinks a little bullying and taunting is a bad thing. You call a kid fat these days and he cries, and the kid gets suspended for a day. Society is weak and people wonder why America is falling. The answer is because of people like you MARY BETH.

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Brian

1:50 am on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

I know you are just trying to sound better than others, but really? How on earth do you compare some taunting with being sodomized? Yes, some situations call for kids to work things out, but this isn't one of them. Getting called fat or made fun of should/could be taken care of by kids...getting raped is something altogether different. Don't marginalize what happened because it was a guy....it's still rape and still all sorts of wrong.

The parents of these assailants messed up somewhere down the line. It shouldn't have to always fall on the schools, but this macho mentality needs to have a line somewhere. No one should be raped in school....ever. This isn't even about bullies in the strict sense. It is about teammates. It's just sick that you are basically saying the sodomizing was ok, the victim should just get a posse to fight or do it right back.

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Mary Beth

1:03 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

It is apparent that your own personal demons have not been successfully dealt with, Bree, and for that, I am sorry. That does not diminish the fact that children, (and yes, HS students are still children) need to be protected from criminal sexual assault. It is the duty and responsibility of adults to insure their safety. To equate childish name calling with sodomy is naive and supercilious. Childhood traumas, as your own skewed version of reality demonstrates, have far reaching ramifications. As far as my own 4 teens, they have neither been the victims of such heinous crimes, nor have they assaulted anyone, but to their credit have often acted not only in their own defense but in the defense of others. By your own assertion, we should create a Columbine-like atmosphere-with posses roaming the halls to watch your back. Why not weapons to really insure protection? And any of those 'weak' kids-small, frail, special needs, physically or emotionally challenged, those that can't or won't fight back? I guess in your eyes they should just be picked off, as they are a drain on society, 'losers', fair game. I think for one, you've been watching too many movies-train harder to take on 6 kids; and two, you seem confused and unable to differentiate between name calling and criminal assault! Frightening.

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GuitarMan

7:50 pm on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

@ Bree Olson.

Your vulgar evolutionary approach to human interaction sounds more like paranoia than wisdom. More like the law of the jungle. Good ole days, do you mean the similar to gang bangers and bar thugs, again law of the jungle. Is that how you raised your kids? Forget the college fund, just find a good criminal attorney.

Mr. Rats

7:58 am on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

"The hazing ritual was ordered and witnessed by several coaches, according to the complaint, when, on Sept. 27, Michael Divencenzo, varsity soccer coach, Emilio Rodriguez, freshmen soccer coach, and other coaches ordered a “campus run” after the freshman soccer player was promoted to the varsity squad.

During the “campus run” the boy’s teammates grabbed him, according to the complaint, tore off his underwear, held him down so he could not resist, grabbed his testicles and sodomized him with their fingers and other foreign objects"

This is systematic rape and sexual assault and not any hazing that I was ever aware of in the schools I attended. These children ARE fighting back and they're better than the rapists and the system that allowed the GANG rape.

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LaVerne

8:13 am on Tuesday, December 4, 2012

If the complaint is found to be true. I assume charges will be made against the Coaches and they will be going to jail.

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Christopher Brinckerhoff

11:20 am on Monday, December 10, 2012

Thank you for participating in this discussion. I featured some of your comments in post about the poll results. http://desplaines.patch.com/articles/poll-results-schools-are-breeding-ground-for-hazing-bullying

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peoplesuck

12:16 pm on Wednesday, December 19, 2012

I can't believe how many people think this is normal behavior. First of all this is rape by obvious homosexuals. I don't know about the other guys here but forcing another guy down and grabbing his testicles and forcing fingers into his anus is not only extremely gay but also rape. How any of you can say that kids today whine too much blows me away. Add to all this is the fact that the coach witnessed and or directed it. This all comes down to crap parenting which is also the reason why we have seen other tragedies unfold recently at our schools. You all are gross and part of a larger problem.

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